Sunday, June 7, 2009

Lick it B4 u stick it


SO OK Listen. Any one who knows anything about great sex knows that giving great oral pleasure is a sure way to be considered a great lover. The problem is many men can be too self centered when delivering the goods. Some women won't tell you that you suck when it comes to going down correctly (no pun intended.) The only way you will find out is when she dumps you and you are left wondering, "what happened?" You can be sure her girlfriends knew why.

Don't let this happen to you!

So here is five ways, to start the blaze!!!









  1. Take Your Time - Kiss your way down her entire form and tease her inner thighs, pelvis and buttocks for a while before you make contact with any part of her genitalia. Try breathing very softly on the newly kissed and licked parts for extra sensation. Get close so that she thinks you're going to go for it at any second, but don't give in just yet.




  2. Continue to Build Arousal - Begin to kiss and lick her vulva, work your way in slowly from the outside in. Start by licking the outer edges of the outer lips (labia), then very slowly spread them, and lick and kiss the inner lips, and around the vagina. Be very gentle when doing this, as though you were still teasing her. You'll work your way up to more intense action soon enough.




  3. Keep Her Clitoris at Bay - Even though you are kissing and licking her vulva and labia, hold off from directly stimulating her clitoris. When you do start in for that ever so sensitive area, do it slowly and very softly. In fact start with the clitoral hood first and then when she is fully aroused, go directly for the clitoris, always gently.




  4. Careful Sucking - As arousal progresses, you can gently suck her clitoris into your mouth and flick your tongue over it. You are now combining sucking and licking in a very subtle and effective manner.




  5. Get Your Fingers Into the Fray - Use one finger and make a "come here" motion to locate her G-spot, This will raise the orgasm factor when done properly. Even if you don't know where her G-spot is (it's good to have some experience with it before hand), just this simple action will double her pleasure.




Remember just because these are great tips, always mix the tricks an be spontaneous for that is the best way to keep her wondering what you have simmering up your sleeve. Making her crave you more an more way after you gone.

Tuesday, May 26, 2009

But is there such a thing as too much sex?


The answer,

In purely physiological terms, is this: If you're female, probably not. If you're male? You betcha.


Dr. Claire Bailey of the University of Bristol says there is little or no risk of a woman's overdosing on sex. In fact, she says, regular sessions can not only firm a woman's tummy and buttocks but also improve her posture.

Dr. George Winch Jr., an obstetrician/gynecologist in Elko, Nev., concurs. If a woman is pre-menopausal and otherwise healthy, says Dr. Winch, her having an extraordinary amount of intercourse ought not to pose a problem. "I don't think women can have too much intercourse," he says, "so long as no sexually transmitted disease is introduced and there's not an inadvertent pregnancy. Sometimes you can have a lubrication problem. If you have that, there can be vaginal excoriation--vaginal scrape." Women who abstain from sex run some risks. In postmenopausal women, these include vaginal atrophy. Dr. Winch has a middle-aged patient of whom he says: "She hasn't had intercourse in three years. Just isn't interested. The opening of her vagina is narrowing from disuse. It's a condition that can lead to dysparenia, or pain associated with intercourse. I told her, 'Look, you'd better buy a vibrator or you're going to lose function there.'"

As for men, urologist Eid says it's definitely possible to get too much of a good thing, now that drugs such as Viagra and Levitra have given men far more staying power than may actually be good for them. The penis, says Eid, is wonderfully resilient. But everything has its limits. Penile tissues, if given too roistering or prolonged a pummeling, can sustain damage. In cases you'd just as soon not hear about, permanent damage.

"Yes," says Dr. Eid, "It is possible for a young man who is very forceful and who likes rough sex, to damage his erectile tissue."

The drugs increase rigidity; moreover, they make it possible for a man to have second and third orgasms without having to wait out intermission. "I see it in pro football players," says Eid. "They use Viagra because they're so sexually active. What they demand of their body is unreasonable. It's part of playing football: you play through the pain." This type of guy doesn't listen to his body. He takes a shot of cortisone, and keeps on going. And they have sex in similar fashion." There's a reason the penis, in its natural state, undergoes a period of flaccidity: That's when it takes a breather. The blood within it is replenished with oxygen.

"During an erection," explains Eid, "very little blood flows to the penis. During thrusting, pressure can go as high as 200 mil of water. Zero blood flows into penis at that time."

To absorb oxygen, the tissue must become relaxed. "If you do not allow the penis to rest, then the muscle tissue does not get enough oxygen. The individual gets prolonged erections, gets decreased oxygen to tissue, and could potentially suffer priapism."

(We recommend you get a medical encyclopedia and look it up.) "The muscle becomes so engorged, it's painful. Pressure inside starts to increase. Cells start dying. More pressure and less blood flow. Eventually the muscle dies. Then there's scarring. That's why it's considered an emergency."
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Monday, May 25, 2009

Am i 2 big 4 sex


This is gonna be a very quick blog i was once again asked for advice` about "Sex" since i am in the business of the sex industry. Well not really sex advice this time. Well anyways the question that asked to me was. Am i too big have sex, my responce was HELL NO, you see guys an girls find people attractive no matter how they look an not even size matters. I know alot of big guys with little girls an little girls with big guys. Its whatever you are attracted too. Just the key to remember is sex is like basketball the hole is in one spot an if you got all the right moves you can make it in and hell if you have a crowd watching then you might even get them cheering for you. But just for future referece get the moves down before you go inviting people to watch.

To lub or not lub


Well as crazy as it may sound no its not. Do I use lub when having sex well the first thing you have to ask yourself is, do you need to use lub when having sex.
Great sex requires moisture; otherwise the friction (necessary for pleasure) quickly becomes painful. Some women produce enough natural moisture, but for many adding in a personal lubricant is essential. Personal lubricants tend to be slicker than Mother Nature, so many people prefer sex with a lubricant. Lubricants also improve many people’s experience with sex toys.

Some people have a favorite brand (some considerations are taste, stickiness factor, or price), but many people don’t give much thought to their personal lubricant. Because the skin in the vagina (and anus) is very sensitive some lubricants can cause irritation, burning, and even allergic reactions. Alcohol and other preservatives are usually the cause.
In closing if your gonna tap it an you wanna make sure its wet enough make sure you use lub, and if you are gonna go from behind first let her know otherwise that is a whole new conversation. However when goin for the ASSest make sure you always have lub on hand jus in case it dont slide right in.

Friday, May 22, 2009

How 2 keep ur man SEXually satisfied


Keeping a man sexually satisfied can be fun for him and for you. Whether you appeal to his wild side or seduce him with sweet talk, a few simple steps can help you keep your bedroom exciting and your man fulfilled.





  • Appeal to his taste for visual stimulation. Most men will readily admit that visual sexual stimulation is a great way to get their motors running and keep them satisfied. Try wearing lingerie or surprise him by wearing nothing at all.


  • Use your voice to its best advantage. Men generally love dirty talk. If you're not comfortable with it, try dropping sexy hints about what you'd like to do to your man over the phone. Your sexually suggestive talk will have him begging in no time.


  • Touch him like an expert. Though you probably never learned exactly how to touch a man, with a little practice he'll be begging for it. Be sure to touch a man's most intimate parts very gently, and if you decide to rub his penis, try a little lube to make the movements all the more exciting for him.


  • Engage in oral sex if and when you're comfortable with it. A majority of men list oral sex as one of the most sexually satisfying experiences they have in bed, so it's probably worth learning how to do it right. Take your time the first few times you attempt it because teeth can kill the mood quickly.


  • Try to be adventurous. Whether you decide to have sex in an exotic location or simply take it into the living room for a change, small changes of pace can excite a man. If he knows you're open for adventure, he'll most likely appreciate it.


  • Appeal to his emotions, too. While men might not seem as emotional as women, underneath they really are. Treat your man with sweetness and try to infuse laughter and fun into your bedroom. If you can do that you'll please him in a well-rounded way making sex all the better.

4 Rules to make her moan to a Orgasm!!!


First of all, you have to understand that most women enjoy orgasm. Just as much as you guys do. Yet, not many of them have the experience of having an orgasm. One of the reasons for it is that most men do not know how to stimulate the woman. As a matter of fact, there are various ways for you to drive her crazy. However, you will not be able to do so if you do not know the correct techniques. It is important that you understand how you can give your lady a orgasm. Here are 4 rules for you so that you can really make her wild when have intimate relationship.





  1. Foreplay - This should always be stressed. You have to give her quality foreplay. This is certainly the first thing you need to learn. You have to make sure that you will be arousing her when you are having foreplay with her. Remember to do it slowly and gently when you are having foreplay. You should kiss her gently. You should also use words! You may want to tell her how sexy she is. This will help a lot since ladies are usually more emotional! Plus it will help you gentlemen on how to stop from coming sooooo soon.


  2. Oral Sex - You should try to give her oral sex. The truth here is that most women will enjoy it. Of course you should try to ask your girlfriend before you do so. This is because some women just do not like it! Be sure to spend the time to stimulate her clit. Focusing on this will get her turned on quickly. Not to mention if you rock her boat she might rock your cock...

  3. Penis Size - When you are trying to give your girlfriend orgasm, your penis size will certainly count. Yet, it is also important for you to understand that your girlfriend may not love it if it is too big! However, you will still need to search for some penis enlargement products so that you can make sure that your girlfriend will feel "full" when you are having the actual intercourse. However if you are just satisfied with your size, then just remember its how you work it. To keep the moaning an groaning goin all night long...


  4. Sex Positions - There are some positions that will be able to give your lady orgasm easily. However, you will need to search for it yourself. You need to explore the best sex positions! The point here is that you will need to explore with your lady. This can also be a good way for you to communicate with her. It will be a lot easier for you to make her wild if you can communicate well with her! Now for you fellas that are there for the bang, bang, boom. Note pay attention to her moventments this will tell you exactly how she feels with the position.


Thursday, May 21, 2009

Comments, Questions, an New Topics



This blog is gonna be about sex an anything that revolves around the sex world. Please feel free to leave any comments, questions, an new topics you want to read or hear about on this blog. I will talk about tips on what to do while getting your fuck on. How to go from in the bed geek to sex sleek. A make over of mumbles public speaker to a casanova sweet talker. This will cover guy's an lady's topics whether its about a lady's pussy an how to increase her orgasm, or how to last longer in bed for you guys whether you got a little dick or a king size dick. All of my research an information will come from viewers an insider information to include magazines, polls, an much much more... Hope you enjoy!!!